tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5170685779384983788.post9136380953170925724..comments2014-01-17T02:29:36.317-08:00Comments on Grammy's Ramblings: The AffairsAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04553153215212086243noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5170685779384983788.post-10567748959223335182013-04-12T03:12:31.628-07:002013-04-12T03:12:31.628-07:00People are complicated. Some like the thrill of pu...People are complicated. Some like the thrill of pursuit and being pursued. Some fear aging and seek affirmation of their appeal. Some want adventure and risk. Some want what they want and don't like to pause to consider the feelings of others. Some relationships were mismatched since Day 1, but people outside the relationship only see the civility that exists for show and don't see the dysfunction.<br /> <br />I'm sure that there are other reasons too. The other woman (or man) might be great at building up the cheater's confidence, quick to praise, or a phenomenon in bed. I suppose those who have their reasons for staying in a relationship may not feel motivated to remain faithful, and the lying that is required to pull this off gives them a sense of mystery and power. I don't know. The whole scene is not my style at all. So I expect that I may not even be close in explaining the behavior.<br /> <br />B.<br /> <br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04553153215212086243noreply@blogger.com